Hi guys, my first thread, pls bear with me 
I am interested to know peoples opinions on masturbation
My Dp and i have been together for over 11 years, and we do love each other, he is my best friend and partner in everything, but my problem is his masturbating, he denys it to me but i know he does it regularly, i have often found evidence 
Dont get me wrong, i dont have a problem with him having a wank if we have sex regular, but theres times when ive tried it on, his knocked me back then i find out his had a wank while watching porn, this really upsets me, which he knows, as i am overweight and have quite low self esteem and i can never in a million years compete with the women he watches in the pornos, am i not good enough for him? I have a very high sex drive also, his is lower but yet hed rather wank 
AIBU to think too much into this, or delusional thinking he really loves me when he may not or is this all normal?? Confused and just to add im not a prude in any way but sometimes i feel he just uses me,maybe im a bit oversensitive about this issue, TIA
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Boofaloofa · 22/05/2016 23:32
Yes summer i dont mind porn myself, i have watched it in the past, and seyou nearthetime your account is more accurate, he is vwry forgetful about things tbh. He was mortified when i spoke to him about it, honeymom thats how i try to think of things but its hard, i have offered as i think i said befire to watch porn with him and he refuses, its not because its weird porn or anything he watches its just bog standard stuff, 
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