If you have used either of the two sites above could you please tell me wether they work on a 'credit system' as in you pay say £20 which gets turned into credits which can then be spent sending individual messages? Each message sent costs a certain amount of credits.. If that makes any sense?
Long story short: I think my partner is trying to do damage control after I recently found out he had paid 2x £20 transactions through HMPV on the night I know he signed up to AFF and POF. I thought he 'only' signed up as a free member and didn't talk to anyone so I forgave him.
He claims that money was transferred to tokens to message people on ONE of the sites above, he cannot remember which it is and admits to sending a few messages and only one person replying who he then realised was a bot after a handful of messages.
I've googled and it doesn't look like either of those sites use this credit method. The only thing I can find 'dating' wise that uses credits is sexcam sites 
Have you used these sites? Am I right in thinking they do NOT use 'credits' to allow you to message other members? And instead you just pay a fee for membership which gives you those features?
I know that whatever the answer this isn't right and i deserve better. I'm just trying to work out if he is continuing to lie to me. I told him i can forgive what he has done if and only if he told me the entire truth from that moment on. I made it very clear that if he told me a another lie about it then our relationship would be over.
Thank you in advance.