First time poster here who would like to say a big Thank You to all the amazing people on this board who have indirectly helped me get through the past few difficult months. Thanks to you taking the time to share your experiences and offer advice to others I now know my ex is an abusive man who chose to treat me the way he did. This forum, along with the support I have had from Women's Aid, has been invaluable to me. 
for each and every one of you.