Have very little to do with my DF due to his NPD. He goes on to family and friends about his wonderful DGC's, how they take after him and how well he treats them.
Reality is completely different. Just sent DD19 her birthday present which including postage is less than he spends on his daily cake and coffee (was a spiralbound notebook). That is pretty normal. Have tried to say lets not bother with presents anymore and that kicked off a lot of abuse at me. Know only option is to carry on or send them back so guess it's just continue on.