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Laughing after sex .....

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Maniacalparrot · 10/04/2016 08:38

I have just started seeing a new man. Everything is fine but there is just something he does that I find a little strange: he bursts out in laughter about 10 secs after cuming. Has anyone experienced this it makes me feel a little bit weird. He tells me it is a compliment but I am not sure ...

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ALaughAMinute · 10/04/2016 09:04

No I haven't experienced this thankfully and quite frankly it would put me off!

HandyWoman · 10/04/2016 09:30

Ew, that would put me off. Is it every time? How old is he? 17?

Hmmmmmm.............. I think I would question whether he's for me.

crazycatdad · 10/04/2016 09:38

People do weird shit in bed, I wouldn't try to take any meaning from it. If you find it really off-putting though, that's another matter.

Beebacoff · 10/04/2016 09:38

I had a boyfriend who did this - I thought it was quite cute.

WhiskyTangoFoxtrot · 10/04/2016 09:42

Have you ever read any Nancy Mitford?

One of her main characters, Linda Radlett, laughs in bed and describes it as because she's a simple character who generally laughs when she's happy and cries when she's sad.

Would thinking about it in those terms make any difference?

Spanishrain · 10/04/2016 09:47

Yeah, my bf does this, it's the release & happiness but he does qualify it with ' Oh that feels good, that was fantastic' etc.

ByTheNine · 10/04/2016 09:48

I do this - it's completely involuntary and luckily no-one I've slept with has minded! Don't take it personally, I think it's just all part of the general feeling of release.

RobinaRedbreast · 10/04/2016 09:52

Blush I do this after an orgasm - I can't help it and don't know why I do it. It's not loud belly laughing though just a quiet little giggle. Luckily my partner thinks it's very cute and I did warn her beforehand.

Floralrainbow · 10/04/2016 09:53

My DH does this- he's very sensitive after he ejaculates and the slightest touch makes him giggle...

WhatALoadOfOldBollocks · 10/04/2016 14:03

I read an article that said orgasm can have different effects on people; some laugh, some cry, some just fall asleep, etc. It's nothing to worry about. I often laugh during after a good session Blush

sarahlou75 · 10/04/2016 14:08

I had a partner who sneezed every time he got turned on!

IAmAPaleontologist · 10/04/2016 14:08

Dh does that. Totally involuntary, just bursts into giggles. Always has done. A particularly good session will have him in peals of laughter for ages. Can be annoying but there are worse things!

SueTrinder · 10/04/2016 14:15

I always laugh after great sex (makes DH giggle as well, we're so well suited Grin). It's probably something he's not got much control over. Is the sex satisfying enough for you though that you are getting annoyed about him laughing? Surely after sex you should be super chilled and relaxed, not getting annoyed about a little thing like someone laughing with pleasure.

Katedotness1963 · 10/04/2016 14:41

I sometimes laugh or cry after orgasm, it's a very intense, emotional feeling. It doesn't always happen and can be either happy or sad for no apparent reason.

lasttimeround · 10/04/2016 14:59

Sounds cute. But clearly you aren't into it

Maniacalparrot · 10/04/2016 15:55

Thank you all for the comments. Interesting to know that it is so common. I actually find it endearing I guess if it's an involuntary thing.

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M00nUnit · 10/04/2016 16:00

It could be a lot worse OP. I used to have a DP who would shout "Shit! Fuck!" when he cameConfused. Such a massive turn-off.

CockacidalManiac · 10/04/2016 16:03

It could be a lot worse OP. I used to have a DP who would shout "Shit! Fuck!" when he cameconfused. Such a massive turn-off.

Were you shagging Father Jack?

ChipInTheSugar · 10/04/2016 16:09

I had a short relationship with someone who shouted "Fuck! FUck! FUCk! FUCK!!!!!!'" as he climaxed. Found it quite off-putting tbh - and all a bit "me, me, me" Hmm

goddessofsmallthings · 10/04/2016 16:27

Woody Allen said that "sex is 'the most fun you can have without laughing" but I'm more inclined to Mr Rotten's view that it's "2 minutes and 52 seconds of squelching noises" which invariably cause me to crack up. Grin

bythewindsailors · 10/04/2016 17:20

My DH does this occasionally, when it has been especially mind blowing for him. A really deep belly laugh interspersed with sighs and wow's. It was disconcerting the first time, but now I am used to it! I take it as a compliment!

Guitarguy14 · 11/10/2018 19:15

I know this is an old thread but I wanted to comment. I will sometimes laugh or sneeze as well and it is perfectly normal. Nothing to be ashamed of nor is there anything wrong with it. It's involuntary.

babygoose48 · 11/10/2018 23:56

Oh yeah in the flip side here... I do this myself!

Have no idea why this happens but oocasionally afterwards I just burst in to the most hysterical and uncontrollable giggles. Only when it’s top notch sex though. Take it as a compliment OP Grin

LAUGH2025 · 04/01/2025 04:43

Hahaha
Ok! I am a 37 male! And yes, I burst out laughing like 5 seconds after I ejaculate in sex. It probably lasts 5-10 seconds. It's a great thing.
In all honesty, we don't really know exactly why it happes in some men but to me, IT IS BECAUSE I JUST WENT THRU A LOVELY COMPLETE EXPERIENCE. It's weird because all of the partners, except 1, found it cute and eventually joined in laughing. As a matter of fact, girls that became my long-term partners, get used to it and loves it and if i don't laugh after sex in the future, they would know something is NOT 100%. But he has to explain to girls that it's a great thing and has nothing to do with ur funny ass lmfao
LET THE MO FO LAUGH GIRLS DAAAYM

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