Changed the way we feel

[Justwhattodo]

Both me and dh agreed we 'don't feel the way we used to' we both love each other but don't feel how we used to feel about us as a couple. We have great times, rough sex life but get on really well and really love each other. Could this work?

I didn't mean rough sex I meant our sex life isn't 'amazing' it's ok , good at times.

I suppose it depends what you both want from life going forward? Is the sex life bothering either/both of you? Is anything else causing a problem? Do you want the same things in the future?
I think anything can work if you make eachother happy and are willing to compromise on things.
Has anything happened to prompt this thread?

Gosh I think you've done well really. But it's all about your personal expectations and the life you want. No one else can define 'working', or what ingredients a marriage should contain.

How long have you been together?

All relationships 'ebb and flow'.

It depends what you feel should happen now. I think most couples find they don't feel the same after a number of years as they did at the beginning, which is normal, but I think the fact that you've actually acknowledged it indicates that one or both of you feels that it should change things in some way.