Soo stupid. anyone know how to get a paternity test ?

[whatanidiot]

I have been so stupid. my relationship with dh has been up and down, mostly down for 4 years. last xmas a friend started paying me attention and to cut a long story short we have had sex 2 times. Now ive got a 3 week old ds and cant be sure he is dh's. How can I get a paternity test ?

Been thinkin long and hard and think we should have the test, but how to do it without dh knowin, obviuosly cant pay by cheque.

would the other man pay for it? Or could someone pay for it and you pay them back in cash?

If the other man is happy to take the test, and there are definately only 2 possible Dads, then your DP doesn't have to know that the test has been done - unless you decide to tell him the results.

Had to do a name change as I post regularly.

I am in this position and decided against doing a test for all the reasons outlined in previous posts.