My husband had an explosion this morning and shouted at me. I was quite frightened. I went out for the day and when I came home, I said to him that I wanted to say something to him without fear or retribution. I told him that I had been afraid when he blew off at me and that it was horrible because there was nothing I could have done or changed. He minimised it and said he was just being normal and everyone gets angry sometimes. No they don't. Not like that. He was effing and blinding because I had left something in 'his' car. He had not asked me to get it out. He simply shouted abuse. It was awful. This is his normal. I feel sorry for him. This is not normal behaviour.