NC. Long story, I'll try to keep it brief.
Separated from stbxh a few months ago. Was relatively amicable until quite recently when he's become a total dick.
Main points:
Last weekend he trashed my house, stealing and damaging a number of items, including several essential items I've had to replace. All of this done in front of the children.
Later this week he was arrested and charged with several counts of criminal damage.
I dont believe, in light of the damage to the property, it is safe for him to be with the children alone.
He can't have them at his mum's house, where he is living, as she recently tried to kill herself and I'm not having my children in that environment.
It's not safe for me to be there to supervise contact due to threats he's made to me.
He's now claiming the children aren't his so won't be paying maintenance, but is refusing DNA tests.
As a result of all of these factors I have said he can't see the children until he comes up with a safe environment for them, and admits they are his.
He's now posting daily on Facebook what a 'deadbeat mother' I am keeping the children away from a 'loving and caring father'.
I'm furious.
I'm not one to air my laundry in public, but I honestly wish all the people who are 'liking' his statuses and commenting about what a cunt I am knew the whole story!
The simple answer is to stop looking, but I've told by a solicitor and the police to keep screenshots of his bullshit (especially in relation to the goods he's stolen and is trying to sell) so that's out of the question.
I'm just so fucking mad. I want to shout from the rooftops what a first class dick he is, but I can't and I won't drag myself to his level! Please calm me down!