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I'm a crap person. Spending the weekend with boyf and want to run away.

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MissTessmacher · 21/02/2016 17:44

Or more accurately I want to chuck him out of my house. We've recently gone from a FWB set-up (my preference) where we only saw each other once a week and for one night every other weekend to being more of a 'proper couple'.

He's been at mine since yesterday lunch time and I'm completely irrationally being driven mad by his:

  1. Loud eating (open mouthed crunching of crisps) Also includes slurping tea.


  1. Complete indecisiveness to all my questions.


"What do you want to do for dinner? Shall I grab something from M+S?"

"Err can do".......silence

Flicking through Netflix and I'm overtly saying " what about that one?" "Errrrr can do".

  1. Making stupid/obvious comments about what we're (eventually) watching eg. a car drives out of a garage "the car is driving out of the garage huh huh" Confused.


I just want to slob in my pjs and watch Gilmore Girls. On my own

It's not him. He's a kind and sweet person. The sex is incredible. I am just not cut out to be a girlfriend to anyone. I spent 13 years with ex-DP and this is just starting to feel like the same strangling mundanity that I felt towards the end of that relationship.

Gah!
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RiceCrispieTreats · 22/02/2016 09:39

"We've recently gone from a FWB set-up (my preference) where we only saw each other once a week and for one night every other weekend to being more of a 'proper couple'."

I don't understand how this happened if it's not what you want.

Since you know you prefer FWB, stick to that.

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Arfarfanarf · 22/02/2016 09:55

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TheNaze73 · 22/02/2016 10:53

Exactly what tribpot said....

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