would it bother you if your dh still..

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looked up his ex regularly on social media to look at their profile?

No, not if i trusted him.

I would not like it at all, no.

I have some exs in my Facebook, sometimes we communicate, sometimes we see each other updates. Not a torch in sight here, so no worries.

I think that unless you have any other concerns you shouldn't worry about it.

Do they have DC together?

No, they don't have DC together. We have newborn DC, so maybe its just hormonal that it's playing on my mind.

He mentioned to me that he had looked, so i don't think i need to worry.

It does however bothers me when the partner of my estranged exh searches me in LinkedIn. I wish I could put an ad up saying "honestly, he's yours to keep, we don't want him or like him, he is totally yours!"

I wouldn't like it.

Every now and then no, I do the same. But regularly indicates more than nosiness I think.

Er - I thought everyone did that!

Dh still sees his ex, and is in contact with his ex via text/phone regularly. This has been over a couple of decades.

Is doesnt, and has never bothered me. She is no threat.

I've looked up my exes. It good to know things never worked out with them and have a 'HA HA' at where they are now compared to how I am

Um... I've got a newborn and have had to fill long hours in the middle of the night with an unsettled baby and an iPad for company. I may have spent some of that time looking up exes on social media out of nothing but idle curiosity...

So no, it would be hypocritical of me to judge my partner for the same behaviour.