While I have everything I need I am unhappy that he spends time on the internet, on Skype and emails etc. with other women. He also sends some of them gifts. He works abroad some of the time and I suspect that there has been some meeting up at some point. Now a male friend has said its not big deal and that most men do it I have just been unfortunate to have found out about this. It leaves me feeling so low, inadequate and unwanted. The more I watch I can see that he will delete an email already started when I come into view and he is smug sometimes after receiving emails etc. I feel it is a big deal despite my mate saying it isn't but feel if I confront him he is only going to use more covert methods to carry on as he is. My way of thinking is if it affect our relationship it can't be acceptable. If I say anything he will accuse me of being needy and untrusting. any advice welcome.