I'm just here to say thank you to everyone on these boards for all your help, advice and support over the last year. It's been a very difficult year trying to keep a marriage together, illness, depression.... and you have all been a little bit of light that I'll come out of this in one piece.
I've finally told my OH that I want to separate and divorce and all I can feel is relief and new hope for the future. It's a time of change and uncertainty, but I can deal with that without the dragging of a relationship that just wasn't working. So if you're sure you're ready to go, eat the frog and do it.
So thank you everybody and keep up the good work!