Divorce advice please

[ThisIsStillFolkGirl]

Hi

Stbxh and I sit 3yrs ago after his affair. Wasn't in a place to divorce then and waited for 2 yr separation. No joint assets - he refused to buy a house with me. Both work f/t but my career took a bit of a slump to care for chn.

He filed for divorce and paid fees in sept. He expected me to just sign and return but no financial settlement is in place. He wants to tell me what he is willing to pay per month in child maintenance (guided by csa website).

We were married for 4 years but have a 9yo child together. He is voluntarily paying maintenance for my son who he has brought up for most of his life.

I clearly need advice but I don't know.

He is getting cross that I haven't just signed.

Thanks, Just, I'll have a look at that website. I didn't get a form like that, just the one mentioned upthread that states the details if the marriage and confirms the details of the separation.

Yes, flying blind is exactly how I feel!