I am SO over the novelty of being married.

[naggingfishwife]

So far he has bought not a single present or written a single card (like last year I seem to remember)

He can only remember 3 things and only then does 2 of them (very frustrating when we have a major relocation to undertake in 3 days time)

He expects me to tell him what needs doing, to remind him and blames me if I don't remind him- (pitiful and pathetic.. I am supposed to find this man sexually alluring?)

When the chips go down he sticks his head in the sand and gets caught up in the minutaie.

He can't even remember to flush the toilet after himself properly.

Blody bloody hell. This is my bed. In it I must lie. It will get better.

Tackle it now before it gets any worse!

He is your husband, not your son. It seems to me that so many of us get into the habit of treating them as offspring rather than partners - and they obviously enjoy it.

Stop right now - then maybe you'll find him sexy again!!!

Good luck.

naggingfishwife - i used to feel like that , then one christmas decided enough, i refused to buy presents/do cards / make arrangements for his family and so that year they got nothing ...he seemed to learn, i get lovely presents for all my family and friends and he sends his a hamper do i care wether they like it or not ...no , and i wont do his cards and i don't help with his arrangemants to see his family ... he is an adult.