The Hero's Spouse

[Horopu]

Someone has recommended this website to me:
www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/

It doesn't really seem like my kind of thing but I wonder if I am not being fair and if others have found it helpful?

It's sounds like how to do the pick me dance "better"....

They openly admit they have an anti divorce agenda. It sounds tedious.

Its a weird and off putting name

Other than that, it looks, well...shit?

Thanks, that's what I feel. My h left 5 months ago to be nearer his new girlfriend. I don't want him back at all, although it is very hard to come to terms with. I was very surprised when I looked at the site that someone would think it was a good idea for me. I'm a bit fragile at moment though so thought I should check with some sensible people.

Let's dress up my personal moral agenda / defensive apologist self-justification in some on-message psychobabble and make lots of money!

Nope.

I got about halfway down the main page.

I disagree with pretty much everything on there tbh. Leaving a marriage is not 'stepping down' its stepping away & under no circumstances do I think that marriage vows should be upheld to someone's detriment.

I'd give it a steer OP, hope you're alright :)

horopu

Thanks again everyone, I've got some great rl support but I know the people of Mumsnet will always steer me right too!

Thanks again everyone, I've got some great rl support but I know the people of Mumsnet will always steer me right too!