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LeahBurke85 · 03/12/2015 18:59

Hi, I'm married with 2 children 5 & under. Wanting another baby but husband doesn't want to for a number of reasons. The big reason was because he said that he was worried that we would have no time together as husband and wife.
So instead every day he takes off of work he now spends doing his hobby and at least one full day of a weekend doing the same. Yet I'm stuck in with the kids bored out of my mind.
The kids are constantly asking where he is.
I was poorly recently and because I asked him to stay home for one weekend out of the past 3 months he didn't talk to me for almost 2 days.

What do I do because he won't talk to me he just thinks because he works mon to fri that he can then disappear for a full day out of every weekend.
Help?????

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flatbellyfella · 03/12/2015 19:08

He is being a self centred pig of a man, he needs to be tought some home truths.

bjrce · 03/12/2015 19:18

I don't mean to be hurtful op, but for God sake don't have another baby with this man. Listen to him. He is basically telling you, you are going to be wholly responsible for childcare and because he works, he gets to indulge in his hobbies.
Even now with two you appear to be frustrated
They are v young at the moment and it is hard right now.
If you want my advice( this is what I did). Go find yourself your own hobby. Then inform dh this is what you are doing and govto your classes as needed. I took up running and kickboxing and inform my dh when I am doing these activities. No debate. Best thing I ever did.

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