I need to end a relationship

[PatriciaJones]

After over a decade.

Hard.

It is hard.

Why are you ending it?

Actually, to my shame now, I have posted over the last decade about this and ignored advice to cut my losses.

No kids between us.

Do you need help with it?
Or just hand holding?

Hand holding, determination.
Rebuilding life.

He's married. Was separated for over a year before we met so I was never ow.

Lied. Lied. Lied.

What is your plan then?
Text and end it all then block and delete?
Face to face?
What will work best for you?

What did he lie about? Are you living together?

He married someone else when he was with you?

I think that says everything about where you fit into his life.

Walk away and do it now. Otherwise you'll be another 10 years down the line and even more miserable.

Sounds more like separated but has never bothered to divorce. Or "never got around to it"

Ah ok, thanks!

Sry not to reply;

I thing I matter has good advice. It's so hard to cut losses after so much investment.

Sry to disappear; I am avoiding thinking about it.

Update. Mission Accomplished.

Proud of you.

Thank you!
See my thread in chat.
:)