So, I have posted on and off about my troubles with dh.
I eventually went to CAB and got my 30 minute free advice from a solicitor.
I thought he had had enough. When he found out, he was very hurt and shocked (not what I expected) there were lots of tears from him and since has been lots of change and effort from his side. And I am having individual counselling to deal with my jealousy.
I am hoping my ultimatum has changed things for the better, thanks ladies for your support - I thought I would update you. I am sure some of you will possibly remember my posts. ….