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Inspiring/self help books?

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wobblywingbatgirl · 10/11/2015 14:42

Hi All

Usual usual - DH left for OW after 26 years (I've other threads asking advice) however, I would really like your opinion on good books that may have helped you through this sh*t situation? To put the OW stuff into perspective? Does anyone have any? I'm fed up with chick-flick type of books and my mind isn't ready for thrillers or love stories, but maybe non-fiction healing/self help books? I could do with support and thought that might be a good way. Would love to hear your recommendations. Thanks.

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BloodontheTracks · 10/11/2015 14:43

Anything by Cheryl Strayed. You can do it.

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wobblywingbatgirl · 10/11/2015 15:07

Oh what a donut I am - I was actually looking for a book called "Anything" but I get it now.... you by any of her books, right?!

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BloodontheTracks · 10/11/2015 15:11

ha, yes, sorry

pocketsaviour · 10/11/2015 15:43

Have a look on ChumpLady, some great stuff on there.

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wobblywingbatgirl · 10/11/2015 15:53

Thank you pocketsaviour - that site looks good!

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wintersocks · 10/11/2015 17:33

I found 'the healing journey through divorce' good

lovelycuppateas · 10/11/2015 19:21

"When things fall apart" by Pema Chodron was really helpful for me when my husband left. Sounds depressing but it's incredibly comforting. I also started a meditation course, which was brilliant.

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