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DBro is a cheater

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BroDacious · 09/11/2015 00:57

Currently on holiday for DBro's 30th with me, DH, DSis, her DW, DBro, his DW, our DMum and DDad and combined 7 kids. Distant holiday, excuse late night post - we're a military family (me, DSis and DBro) and were unable to make dates for this family trip during half term). About 40 mins ago went back to room for shower and DBro asked me to grab his phone, which was charging, on my way back. When I took the phone off charge the screen illuminated automatically and I saw a message from a name I didn't recognise which seemed to me to be clearly a reply to a dick pic. Verbatim "your dick looks great from all angles, that's what I remember...[message preview cut off]". I couldn't believe what I'd seen so clicked to lock the phone. Clicked again to see what percentage of charge and it had a passcode so saw no more than that message preview. Honestly don't know what to do. Did not mean to pry but have now seen this. Three more days of potentially awkward holiday remaining.

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Im0gen · 09/11/2015 03:58

Personally I despise cheaters, so I would have to say something to him. What do you want to do ?

FredaMayor · 09/11/2015 11:56

When you think the time is right speak to DB and SIL privately and tell them what you saw, you should not have to own this secret. At least it wasn't one of the DCs who fetched the phone.

slugseatlettuce · 09/11/2015 14:15

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GlitteryFluff · 09/11/2015 14:17

I agree talk to him on his own first. See how that goes.

Booyaka · 09/11/2015 14:55

I think you need to talk to DBil before you start saying anything to anybody. I know that if people's mobile no. ends up on the wrong sort of database then they get all sorts of weird texts through. I got stung looking for a payday loan ad had to change my number. Some of them were very porny. I would talk to him, because it could potentially be text spam and you wouldn't want to end his marriage over that.

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