I have been having sessions with a personal trainer at the gym. He has been flirty, saying I have a nice bum and a lovely smile and always commenting on my perfume, and just being generally cheeky. I spied on his fb profile which said single, and judging by his behaviour I assumed he was single.
He then says to me that he is looking for a roommate and am I interested?? He makes lots of flirty comments about what would I do if he walked on me in the shower and that he is sure it would be a great view ect, and of course I am cheeky back because I thought it was ok to be!
I go to view the house and the landlord tells me that personal trainer has a girlfriend! He's been with her for a few months, met her at the gym and seems very happy. He definitely did not act like someone in a relationship.
I message him saying I feel our conversation about the shower ect was inappropriate. He says it was 'just banter' I say it is disrespectful to his girlfriend and could hurt her. He says sorry if he offended me and that it was silly to say those things even as a joke.
What do I do now? I need a place to live as its quite difficult where I live now, but he doesnt seem to be very trustworthy, and I did find him attractive and could feel myself getting a crush on him. I dont want to be jealous of him and his girlfriend when she comes over.
Am I over reacting or is he a sleaze? Was it just banter? Is it silly to think I could move in as friends? Or should I just avoid him completely now?