For anyone interested, here's where we're up to...
Twuntfeatures has now stopped paying anything at all to our dcs beloved (long-standing) activities saying that he can't afford it any more lets forget his 6 figure salary shall we? because he has to fight 'unreasonable' mummy's demands in court. Mummy's taking everything & leaving him without.... & his legal bills are astronomical (true).
He then sunk a level lower by actually GIVING the kids printouts of my lawyers emails to his lawyer - to read!!! The kids tell me he has no life at all, sees no-one, goes no where, just spends the WHOLE of the time they're together bemoaning how miserable he is & how I've torn his whole world to pieces. & how, in my forcing him to give me a settlement I'm denying them of their rightful inheritance. So I have the kids coming home 'Daddy says you're taking my inheritance off me?'
He omitted to tell them his latest bountiful 'offer' of 50K. Precisely HALF his previous abysmal offer of 100k...
I am so so lucky I am free now. In a good moment I feel like a champagne cork. I still have lots of problems migranes too to overcome but I'm SO much happier & freer than I used to be. & I have a fabulous lover too now Halleluljah. 