I met someone recently at an event. He lives about 50 miles away. Having a long distance relationship was something I wanted to avoid but we kept in touch and are arranging to meet up in a few weeks. He says he has been separated for 4 years (talks about being in the process of divorcing!)and in the meantime has had another relationship which ended a few months ago. We keep in touch by phone etc and all is good except he NEVER answers his phone. It always goes to voice mail and then he rings me 10-30 mins later. He has phoned very late evening but I have a sense he is still involved or newly involved with someone. I keep wavering about whether or not to go ahead with meeting him.