if you turn your face away every time somebody tries to kiss you....

[Abundatia]

What does it mean? Does it automatically mean you don't find them attractive? Or could it be purely shyness?

I'd say they were avoiding being kissed. Probably because they don't find you attractive.

The first time might be down to shyness, but everytime, no.

Wouldn't the kisser stop trying after the first time? Otherwise, isn't it unwanted sexual behaviour?

It's something I did to a guy in the past. Twice he went in for a kiss and I shyed away. I told myself it was my shyness about kissing him for the first time, particularly in a very public place (in the street). But if I'm brutally honest I think it was because he was only about 5'5 tall.

I dunno why but that made me chuckle

Out of interest, do you normally have difficulty telling whether you're attracted to someone or not?

Not trying to be blunt but genuinely curious and rather surprised that you have to ask this on a public forum. If you don't want to kiss someone you blatantly don't fancy them... Isn't this sort of self-evident?

I can sometimes fall for their personality but find them physically ugly. This has happened more than once.

I think that's pretty normal, tbh.