He doesn't love me.

[sobbingsilently]

I know what I should do in reality, walk away. He doesn't love me, he's just using me. I really want him. He's so good looking & incredible in bed. I miss him. I feel very let down. I bet he's with another woman right now. I hate all this dating business, you meet a hundred men & they're all useless. Will there ever be anyone nice for me?

Domt sleep with them
Until you really know them. Keep looking, but casually and calmly. Block the user.

If you know he doesn't love you then walk away. Respect yourself.
What you are going to do with his "good looking and incredible in bed" if he cant offer you his heart?
Look for someone who is more open to love you and find you enough...
There is definitely one for you ;)

OLD helped some people although there is a bunch of people who just after a shag...

Sorry you are feeling this way. Be strong, it will pass.

If you stay with him you will continue to feel like this. You will be wondering what he's doing when he's not with you and when you are with him you will feel he is using you and wondering if he's like he is with others how he is with you. How does that make you feel?

If you leave, yes you will miss him and what YOU wanted him to be but gone will be the insecurities, the hurt from who, what he's doing in between seeing you. You may be unhappy without him but you sound even more miserable with him.

Hold your head high, you are worth more than to be someones fall back and second option

It does pass. It really does.

You will look back and think 'what was I thinking?'

Promise. Just grit your teeth. Someone gorgeous will be right for you sooner or later.

As I type this, I'm going through the same. I've seen someone else since but it fizzled out because I wasn't over the 'gorgeous, using, unobtainable and frankly manipulative player'. He still occupies my mind but he's not right.

Time is helping.

Stay strong OP.

Do you have to know he loves you to enjoy spending time with him?

Unless your biological clock is ticking I would say just see him casually and enjoy the sex

Okay, look at it like this. You got to shag someone good looking and incredible in bed. Lots of us never got to do that. So, you must be a bit of a looker yourself, yes? So, you can find someone else attractive but not a player. And then when you are my age you can embarrass your daughters by telling them about this incredibly good looking twat you thought you were in love with before you met their dad.

Use him back.

But if you're not getting enough of what you want from him, move on to someone else.