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When did you get your mojo back?

5 replies

hazelisours · 07/09/2015 19:20

This is kind of light hearted, but with a semi-serious curious twist.

My brilliant dd is almost one (I'm 39)....first baby. I go through the motions to keep my lovely oh happy, but I don't feel sexy.....not in the least....I'd rather be asleep or horizontal watching telly (and I'm not even a telly addict).

Help! Will I ever feel like making sex a priority again or am I destined for slippers and ovaltine?? What can I do to help?

BTW oh is incredibly sexy....he's really not the problem here.

OP posts:
SexNamesRFab · 07/09/2015 19:23

Honestly? When youngest was 3! Now I'm gagging for it and DH can't keep up...

monkeyfacegrace · 07/09/2015 19:26

I'm always in the mood, sorry! Tales about 3-6 days after birth for me (3 kids) before I'm chomping at the bit.

You won't get a firm answer I'm afraid. Everyone's different.

AnyFucker · 07/09/2015 19:27

I would say it took 2 years before my body properly pinged back, in more ways than one.

offside · 07/09/2015 19:33

Our DD is 1 and mine's been back since she was about 4 months old. Wish I had to bat my OH away or worry about keeping him happy...

niceupthedance · 07/09/2015 20:34

18 months to 2 years. But I was single so didn't have anyone else to consider.

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