If a woman is called a "Mistress" what is the name for

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a single guy that a married woman is having an affair with

a fancy man

a normal lad with a what a lucky bitch

Lover.

Although it should be stupid idiot IMO.

wanker?

So is it easier for a man to be a "fancy man" than a woman to be a "mistress". Like is it frowned apon in the same way?

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Not frowned upon enough.

What are the stats. I bet there are more mistresses than fancymen.

Women are so easily suckered...

A ho

a manstress??

www is spot on, but it could be 'a bit on the side' or, depending on age gap, perhaps a toyboy or a sugar daddy?

tosser

presumably it should be a master ?

A gigolo surely

a gigolo

oops, too slow there

it's actually 'cicisbeo'

gigolo is a male prostitute I believe, rather than a lover

it's what?

perhaps we all say gigolo because cicis-whatsit is too hard to say!

cuckold?

no a cuckold is a bloke whose wife is having an affair

Actually maybe not - works as a verb but not a noun

Noun 1. cuckold - a man whose wife committed adultery
hubby, husband, married man - a married man; a woman's partner in marriage
Verb 1. cuckold - be sexually unfaithful to one's partner in marriage; "She cheats on her husband"; "Might her husband be wandering?"
cheat on, wander, betray, cheat
cozen, deceive, delude, lead on - be false to; be dishonest with
two-time - carry on a romantic relationship with two people at the same time
play around, fool around - commit adultery; "he plays around a lot"

beat me to it!

whats a stud then?

in the West Indies it is Joe Grind.

also 'cavalier servente' would do it

Well, surely it depends on the relationship whether or not he's a 'tosser'. If a woman is very unhappy or being hit or psychologically abused, and she finds someone who loves her, is he still a 'tosser'?