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Foot fetishism bf help! !

8 replies

Michelle1210 · 28/08/2015 03:03

So my bf has a foot fetish and was looking on his phone for pics of the kids and came across some screen shots he had took on fb of my mates feet, I confronted him about it and he got all embarrassed and give me the whole how he was ashamed talk, I just don't know what to think, theres loads of websites he could go on for his fetish and still a bit shocked it's not like he cheated but I feel cheated but am I making a big fuss for nothing.

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BrendaandEddie · 28/08/2015 04:29

Lol. Your mates feet. Secretly taken?

Arsenic · 28/08/2015 05:14

One mate or lots of mates?

amarmai · 28/08/2015 17:05

Do you think shoe salesmen in women's shoe shops might have this fetish? Wonder what exactly do they want to do to the feet? Is the 'cleavage ' between the big toe and the next one is the object of desire?

pocketsaviour · 28/08/2015 18:02

You might want to post this in the Sex topic.

beaglesaresweet · 30/08/2015 11:47

it's exactly the same as if he was taking your mate's chest cleavage pictures, or her bum in tight clothes! what a cringe if you know that every time he sees her he'd be getting turned on or admiring - to hell with that! you must tell him that your mates are out of bounds or he's out. One thing an impersonal pic of actual feet, another their paty of a woman you meet and know, yuk. Also as far as RL your feet should be enough fo him - as I say it could be any body part.

beaglesaresweet · 30/08/2015 11:49

'they are a part of a woman'

ARV1981 · 30/08/2015 12:16

Yeah this is distasteful in that she is your friend. I can see why you're unhappy with this. Tell him he can't fantasize about your friend's feet and get to keep you! It's no different to if he had pics of her boobs or bum (or any more 'normal' body part that men drool over). It's especially creepy if he's got these pictures without her permission! If I was her, I'd be mortified! (Not saying that your hurt is any less valid though).

BrendaandEddie · 30/08/2015 12:28

Trip trap

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