I've NC for this as it might be too revealing of the past. I am an occasional contributor and regular lurker But today I wanted to shout among what are so many hard challenges that people face that I'm happy! A year ago I was hitting rock bottom in my relationship with a Mexican stand off with DH over respect and a million small things that made my so mad! we got through it and one year on I am at home waiting to put the DCs to bed with the biggest smile on my face. 