Hi , advice please , what would you do ?
So on Monday night I was trying to get football up on my android box which was given to me by my bf , when I realised it had an app for his Facebook account so I clicked on to it , wrong of me I know but curiosity got the better of me and in his message's was him asking one of his female friends , what time her keep fit class was , what should he wear and her reply was oh we work up a sweat you will enjoy it , look forward to seeing you there , what ensued was banter over a couple of days , like why didn't you turn up , he replied he was at the beach that day , she said where was my invite , the one thing that's upset me is he said something about supplying coffee and a massage !!! I was shocked , so I txt him and he said oh it's banter I wasn't being serious about going , she's a friend who taught his girls dance and she's not even fanciable , I told him to get lost as I have had months of constant question about any male friends I've had on FB and I've even deleted them to keep the peace .
What a hypocrite , I've had umpteen texts saying if that was flirting I'll bare my arse in tesco , your over reacting ,
Please help me understand if this was acceptable as he's making me feel like I'm being in his words a dick .