Fantasy Lovemaking

[hampton71]

The other day I was having a conversation with DH about Fantasy Lovemaking, this is something we have done over the years when one of us talks about and imagines making love to some one else, while making love to each other. It usually some we know, a friend, someone at work, one of my sisters, etc..

I know people probably have had a secret fantasy during lovemaking, just wondered how many people are open about their fantasies with their partner?

I have a twin brother. I can't figure out if DP fantasising about my twin would be bad or if it would be bad if I had a twin sister...... which is worse... ? I don't like this thread, my brain hurts.

"Imagine the fun you could have fantasising all the Mumsnet names you could link together,"

At this point I would like to remind everyone that I am a man.

If my partner told me he was thinking of someone else while we were having sex we wouldn't be having sex for much longer.

I wondered how long it would be before Swiss Tony made an appearance

How does that work then? Do you have to turn off the lights and he closes his eyes so he doesn't see you and then you don't talk so he doesn't hear your voice, whilst he calls you by your sisters name?

So you are stealth boasting about just how very open, kinky and cool you are whilst calling sex 'making love'?

Has either of you thought about how the sister would feel about this? If I knew my sister was doing this I would never speak to her again!