why oh why..

[vikingpooboat]

Single for the past year, got texting someone I know through a friend, all going well and arranged to meet for a drink this Saturday and then he goes and sends me a picture of his penis! Why do blokes think this is ok or a turn on? It's the fuglyiest penis I've seen in a long while (only one I've seen in a while ) and have now decided against meeting him. and no there was no sexting or me asking for any pics.just normal chat then bam..here's my penis

I haven't said it is the norm. I suspect - only from MN that l'm in a minority. But the size of that minority? No idea. Among my friends, I'd say a sizeable 30% - but then like calls to like
On MN, I'd guess 10% tops.

As I said - I'm not calling anyone wrong for not liking them. I'm just saying that some do, and presumably enough, for men to think it's worth a punt.

And I'm not the sort you'd find on JK, whoever said that

I do wonder though, how many women don't like to say they don't like it, and brush it aside but carry on chatting? Thus giving the impression that it's OK? And so guys carry on sending them?

I would have found a picture of a bigger more aesthetically pleasing dick and sent it back. That way he can wonder if it was something for him to aspire to or if you have a penis that is bigger than his.

Unsolicited dick pics are rude and unnecessary. Definitely don't meet up with him.

Even worse is when he sends a photo of him, sporting a 1920s bobbed wig, red satin chemise, completed with sassy ball-gag and clip on earrings on his nipples. Handcuffed to the bed. He was a hairy man. Complete with link to his own youtube channel of... you guessed it, him in various glamorous locations such as the Ibis hotel, dressed as a hairy/masochistic Louise Brooks. He was brandishing his great hairy penis about a fair amount. He sent it to me on my birthday.

I wasn't keen.

I think some guys are trying to impress with the size. If they are pretty well endowed then they think it's likely to seal the deal. What they fa to realise is often it makes the recipients eyes water at the thought and it actually makes us think 'nah, looks too painful'.

Yeah, I found it useful to see whether they had something I might consider putting in my mouth. I have requested them before

Most of the time it put me off them though...