I just want and need

[Esmeismyhero]

A good passionate making love session.

Dh and I have sex once every few months and although my sex drive has literally dived after have dc, I just find myself wishing that we could have a good love making session.

When we normally have sex it's nothing like we used to have. There's no forplay, just wham bam thank you mam.

He knows what I like yet he doesn't do it :(

ARGHHHH

... Talk to him then?

Could you try setting the scene
Dcs on a sleepover? Nice meal nice wine nice music relaxed and playful
Let him know you are on a date kind of thing?

So do I, but I've been single for 5 years. You've much less excuse (and some people would probably be grateful for once every few months).

TALK to your husband.

Although I have to wonder at the seeming conflict between the fact that your sex drive has nosedived but you find yourself wanting sex?