I decided to stop all contact with my Sil about one and half years ago as I just could not take her behaviour any longer. She has caused a huge amount of trouble and upset for me and my DH within our family and I got to the point where It was making me so upset and angry that I felt the only way to control it was to cut ties with her. Its been great since then so much better. Anyway now she is pregnant and I don't know what to do when she has the baby. I don't want to see her at all but If I don't go and see the new baby i know she will twist that with the rest of the family to turn me into the bad guy! Anyone else been in this position?