Need some help - my partner is still living at home with me and our kids despite the fact I ahve asked him to leave as he is in love with OW. My problem is my head is filled with unanswered questions / broken dreams etc etc and I find it hard most days to hold a thought in my head for very long. I am at home with the kids most days so feel like Im being a dreadful parent. Whole days are being lost to this feeling and I need some way to deal with it. I know I need counselling but its hard when the kids are with you so much, please some advice.