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My husband just....

38 replies

Lucy61 · 01/06/2015 22:04

Made me a cuppa and did all the cleaning. Feeling loved.Smile

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TTWK · 01/06/2015 22:09

Somebody will be along in a mo to tell you it's guilt because of an affair and you should LTB.

Noneedtoworryatall · 01/06/2015 22:09

Ltb Smile

Lipgloss74 · 01/06/2015 22:10

Lucky you, enjoy x

Noneedtoworryatall · 01/06/2015 22:11

I was gonna say exactly that ttwk. Someone will prob ask if he put the amount of sugar you like and if he didn't he's controlling lol

flora717 · 01/06/2015 22:11

Yeah, that's guilt tight there. Wink

TheoriginalLEM · 01/06/2015 22:11

just bought me a glass of ribena and a happy pill - oh the romance

Gorgonzolacherry · 01/06/2015 22:12

Red flag.

goddessofsmallthings · 01/06/2015 22:14

Tell him if he does that every day, you'll feel truly loved. And if he doesnt, act on Noneed's advice to Ltb.

VanitasVanitatum · 01/06/2015 22:16

He's trying to oppress you. He's assuming a gender role in order to subvert your femininity. Get out now.

goddessofsmallthings · 01/06/2015 22:18

A glass of tooth rotting fruit juice and a tranq??!!

He's having an affair or he's addicted to porn and will be on his mobile to the OW or online with a hard on as soon as you've floated off to happy valley of the Dolls. .

Cabrinha · 01/06/2015 22:19

Yep - I'm in the "that shouldn't stand out so LTB camp" Grin

ALaughAMinute · 01/06/2015 22:20

I think you should Ltb anyway!Smile

PoorNeglectedBike · 01/06/2015 22:20

The bastard. You're being gaslighted. Run. Run as fast and far as you can

m0therofdragons · 01/06/2015 22:23

Having just read a thread where a dh was being slammed because he wanted to save up for a watch and she bought him a book I was just thinking "am I the only one who has a lovely dh who communicates? " he also makes me tea :)

Lucy61 · 01/06/2015 22:24

He makes me a cuppa every evening and does the dishwasher/ sort of cleaning the kitchen. Tonight, there was hoovering, washing and cleaning the bathroom!!! BlushGrin

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Imi22sleeping · 01/06/2015 22:26

It's funny when men do that we feel the need to celebrate so they should clean and make tea 1!

Charley50 · 01/06/2015 22:26

He's just trying to sweeten you up before he tells you he's going on a week long stag do abroad which coincides with your birthday.

Lucy61 · 01/06/2015 22:27

I commented on that thread too and read lots of others about 'unsatisfactory' husbands of various kinds. Just thought I'd post a nice thing about my dh.

What do your lovely dhs do?

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0x530x610x750x630x79 · 01/06/2015 22:27

yeah, aren't some of the things partners get slammed for odd.

So yours must have done the bastard cleaning wrong, leaving you to direct him and making you the house manager; so LTB

mine just spent all night on skype whilst we played games chatting.
As he works away from home.

Lucy61 · 01/06/2015 22:30

Imi- he does his fair share. Everyone pitches in at our home.

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goddessofsmallthings · 01/06/2015 22:30

Hoovering? The pervert! Doesn't he know some men have ended up in A&E because of their activities with a vacuum cleaner and the sight of him being loaded into the ambulance is one your neighbours are not likely to forget Grin

Lucy61 · 01/06/2015 22:31

Charley- of might be on to something!!

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Lucy61 · 01/06/2015 22:31

*you

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Charley50 · 01/06/2015 22:34

Grin I am the Oracle!

ALaughAMinute · 01/06/2015 22:48

He's probably after a BJ Smile