Some of you may remember that I've been on and off mumsnet asking for advice with my internet dating. I am also a constant lurker! I've recently met a guy I really like on eharmony. We have got on really well and I felt there was a strong mutual attraction. Anyway,last night at his house, our first attempt to dtd flopped. He claimed this has not happened before and also insists that he is attracted to me. I was understanding, particularly as he did his best (and succeeded) in pleasuring me. However, now in the cold light of day, I'm really troubled by it. I did everything in my power to get him going, but although he occasionally came to life, he just couldn't sustain it. I've not actually experienced this before, although I have been with partners whose erections have wavered, but they have always come back. I am prepared to be patient, but part of me is worried that he is not really attracted to me. In which case, should I quit while I'm ahead? He is 38and not particularly over weight, although maybe slightly so.