d/h came in a bit pissed leaving do at work etc... and wants us to have a party on boxing day for work ones whom i don't really know. oh i don't know probably his way of being more socialable. so i said if you want does it have to be boxing day? it is kind of the last thing i want. so as i sit writing this i know i am going to say no tomorrow and he will be i tried to make the effort etc......and we will be back to square one. Am i being miserable?