The long post made by a wonderful MNer that states what you should expect in a relationship?

[CindyEcstacy]

Can anyone point me in the right direction?

There was talk of it being made a sticky at one point but I don't think it ever was

TIA

Isn't it at the top of this thread? 'Right, listen up everybody?'

Wil? look

Ta walk

Not thread, sorry - top of the relationships section - it's a sticky!

It is known as Reality's List

Each and everybody entering in to a relationship ought to be given a copy of it IMO.

On an iPad so don't get stickies

But just found it by searching

here you go

Oh! Thank you for this - the timing of it is very apt for me