I posted this in divorce/separation the other day but only got one reply. I haven't got the first clue what I need to do first. If anyone has been through similar and can point me in the right direction I'd be really grateful.
I think myself and my husband may be about to split up. There have been issues for years, some of which I have posted about on MN. I am well aware that I am far from perfect but I cannot be his emotional punchbag any more. I am fully aware that there are two sides to every story but I'm exhausted from years of playing this game.
We have a two year old and a four-year-old (who has just been accepted into a local school for September start). One of the issues I have is that we moved to this area with my husband's job four years ago but our families are 30 miles away and if we are separating I fully intend to move back down to the area that we came from i.e where my support network is. The last thing I want to do is take his children away from him but he works full time and there is no way he could look after them during the week.
I have absolutely no idea where to turn or where to go to look for advice. I don't want to involve either of our families at this stage because I don't think it's fair on them.
Can anyone help me?