After lots of disappointment on Soulmates (which people on here were really supportive about, thank you) I've joined eharmony and have arranged to meet a guy tomorrow afternoon at my local pub. (I won't actually drink but there's no cafe around here). I'm feeling increasingly nervous about the whole prospect after last time's rejection. Any general advice about how to approach it? Should I dress up? Wear heels? Thank you again to all who have offered support after the last saga. I know I need to develop a thick skin and not take it too seriously, so keep reminding myself of that!