Am I chasing ?

[gonegirlagain]

Hi all hmm just want a little advice.. There is a guy who I am loosely seeing at the moment. I do like him and would like things to progress however I feel as if it is me doing all the leg work. For example it seems to be me that starts all the communication ! This week for instance it has been me every time that has instigated things.. He's just stringing me along isn't he ??

How about you try not instigating contact first and see what happens. If he doesn't get in touch then maybe he's not that bothered?

You are setting up a precedent in which even if he is interested he will expect you to do all the running from now on. I'd suggest playing one shot at a time then waiting for him to return your shot.

Leave it and see if he bothers to chase after you...and there's your answer. You've made your interest known so wait and see if he matches it.

If you chase him you put him off! Leave it and see if he contacts you. If he doesn't, forget him and move on.