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Fuming with dp.

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ChickenMcBumNugget · 24/04/2015 20:44

My dp came home early from work today. So I left baby 18 weeks with him while I went on the nursery run. It takes about half n hour altogether.

Anyway at around 6pm I went upstairs to bath the kids and his phone was on charge upstairs, it buzzed a couple of times so I picked it up. Open was a page on a porn site. I clicked on history on safari on iPhone and it says 'this aftermoon' was when he watched it. The only time this could have been was when he was at home with the baby.

I went mad but couldn't shout etc at eldest 4 was in the bath and would have heard he denied it but I said I'd seen the times etc and then he just went quiet he's been out ever since. There's no chance she was napping in this time as she rarely does and when she does its for 2-3 hours so she'd have been asleep when I got back

I don't know why I'm posting here really. I can't put up with this shit

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Fearless91 · 24/04/2015 20:56

I don't have much advice unfortunately but if he was watching porn when he should've been watching her then yes I would be absolutely fuming! Also a little disturbed. Why would you want to watch someone have sex when your 18 month is running around?

You never know though she may have had a short nap. Speak to him.

ChickenMcBumNugget · 24/04/2015 22:30

Thanks for replying.

She's 18 weeks not months so she's not running around but she is very much a Velcro baby.

The only time she will be put down is in her bouncy chair but she has to be constantly rocked and will only sleep or nap on someone

So he either left her screaming and went out the room or did it in the room and I dont even want to think about that it makes me feel sick

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