helpiamaprisonerinatoothpastef ·
07/04/2015 13:41
..just that, really. After 20 years I seem to have reached the point when every bloody thing H does annoys me. He sulks. He pontificates at the TV/me/the DC, he is intolerant and opinionated, he drops towels in damp heaps and walks away from the table without any attempt to clear it. He snores, and sleeps sitting up and his hair crunches against the wooden headboard. He randomly throws away stuff which doesn't belong to him and belittles anyone (me or the DC, basically) who has different priorities.
I did say everything, didn't I 
? - clearly I am being a complete cow and at least half of that (and my actual mental list, which is much longer) is completely ridiculously trivial, and for the other half I am sure he could write just as valid a list about me, but for whatever reason I seem to have tipped over some invisible point, and I can't currently see any way back from here. I just don't like him any more.
Has anyone been there and come back to a reasonable, surviving relationship, and if so, how the hell did you do it?