Following a few weeks of discussions my husband told me our marriage was over. Devastated doesn't come close. However whilst i accept that in the main the fault is with me i am beginning to feel that he isn't completely blameless. I would love to sort it but this seems unlikely, he has said he is here for the children. Whilst i have told my parents he has told no one. I have been going out when possible in order to give him space. But how long to we live like this for? I don't want to ask him to leave but don't want to live like this indefinitely either.