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Dear cunt

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notjustmecunt · 01/04/2015 16:42

When we first met I was so young, I so taken in by you. You were older, wiser, successful, charming, kind, intelligent. You were my whole world. Little did I know that I was on course for heartbreak and abuse.

I hate you with every fibre of my being and I will continue to do so. You are a cunt. You do not deserve oxygen. You did not deserve me!

You played with me, stringing me along, deciding what you wanted, when you wanted it. You have never loved me, you are a damaged person and you have destroyed all that was good in me. I hate you. You were so abusive. You are a psychopath. The lies you told, the deception, the trickery, the mocking! I hate myself for not seeing through you.

You are a cunt and I hope you burn in hell!

I loved you so much and tried so much, I even forgave you for all that cruelty but you still found it in yourself to drop me like I meant nothing to you.

I am always crying and always wishing I could understand why I deserved that. I hate you. You are a cunt!

OP posts:
glenthebattleostrich · 01/04/2015 20:43

Don't say sorry OP. FWIW cunt is my favourite swear word Wink. And we are should all be growed ups here.

Vent as much as you need to. Hatred is like captive animal, it needs to be released into the wild!

ALaughAMinute · 01/04/2015 20:47

Don't let people here piss you off, you have been hurt and anger is part of the journey. Hope you find peace soon.

Ledkr · 01/04/2015 20:49

Cunt is my favourite word op!u friends and I use it often both in jest and to describe, well cunts quite frankly!!
So you carry on my love!
And fuck off to Al the offended cunts

Ledkr · 01/04/2015 20:50

This is for u

Dear cunt
Koalafications · 01/04/2015 20:52

So a poster sees the thread title 'Dear Cunt' thinks "I'm offended by the word cunt" and then decides to open the thread, read the OP and then post to moan about being offended.

Hmm Hmm Hmm

Hope you are ok, OP. Flowers

FaFoutis · 01/04/2015 20:56

He certainly sounds like a cunt to me.

changeshow · 01/04/2015 20:57

OP 'living well is the best revenge'. Move on however you can. Hugs.

(He's a cunt, she's a cunt, everywhere's a cunt, Cunt).

PacificDogwood · 01/04/2015 21:01

Oh a good cathartic rant is a bee-autiful thing - well done, mecunt Thanks

I hope it's helped even a little bit.

And now breathe and let go.
Move on with your life unencumbered by The Cunt.

Islanegra · 01/04/2015 21:10

Try shouting it in a Northern accent. It's got even more bang about it.

Hope you're ok OP.

MyRightFoot · 01/04/2015 21:10

op your ex sounds a right nasty cunt.

zippey · 01/04/2015 21:14

Let's face it, every one of us here is a cunt.

Cunts make the world go round.

dobedobedo · 01/04/2015 21:15

OP I could have written this post a few years ago. Your ex sounds exactly like mine. If he died, I honestly think the world would be a better place.

Sounds like I'm a few years ahead of you and I don't even give enough of a shit about him to hate him. I NOTHING him. He's nothing. And he'd hate how happy I am now. The cunt. Smile

Jules020779 · 01/04/2015 21:17

I normally lurk, but I just want to say that no woman should be ashamed of any word used to describe a vagina - cunt, pussy, fanny, furry muff... Women should be proud of their cunts/pussys/fannys/clunges/beef curatins/snatches/meat wallets... the list goes on. And hey ho calling someone a cunt (although is disrespectful to our lovely lady bit), does get the point across loud and clear.

dobedobedo · 01/04/2015 21:17

Hope you're okay OP. Just ignore the delicate little flowers who think the word cunt is so awful they can't even offer sympathies to someone so obviously in pain.
Cunt is a great word btw.

PandorasToyBox · 01/04/2015 21:44

Op I have my xh on my phone (he's blocked) under the name
Cunt Badger.

It suits him

My dd found it once and laughted saying 'you are right mum he is'

He was a cunt, he hurt my two dc so much that they have gone nc with him......their choice.

We now live in a happy place, full of love. I hope that you can find a place like this for you.

PandorasToyBox · 01/04/2015 21:46

Laughted? Laughed I ment

AdoraBell · 01/04/2015 21:57

Worth remembering that forgiving someone doesn't mean you have To tell them. It means letting Go. This is why it would benefit you. By not carrying hatred and anger you free yourself.

And something that helps is To offload, be it on here or in a Diary/scrap of paper.

I hope you feel better soon OP

notjustmecunt · 02/04/2015 03:02

ledkr that is brilliant! I absolutely love dark humour!

I love the term "pearl clutchers" have only come across that here.

You've all made me laugh so much! "Hatred is like captive animal" glen and ur NN is hilarious!

Isla I will try and perfect the accent Wink

dobedobedo I take my hat off to you my love; exactly this: If he died, I honestly think the world would be a better place. can you print this on a shirt for me

I know I will get over it but sometimes I just get so angry that he's with his OW living the high life and I'm falling apart.

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Hobbitwife001 · 02/04/2015 09:52

You will get there OP, just vent and rant away, better out than inGrin
He is the cuntiest cunt in the whole of Cuntsville!
Forget those pearl clutchers, hate is a negative emotion bollocks, it's a process and you're dealing with it, and anger is a valid emotion and one that will pass into indifference in time.
Chin up lovely girl!

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