DH and I split for 3 years and he recently moved back in. I was happy, thought he was, kids happy etc. He has female friends - absolutely no problem with that - but one in particular is causing me concern.
He moved back in and was secretive with his phone. Always glued to his hand. I talked to him about it and he said one friend texts loads and that he would speak to her.
It calmed down but now she's started up again.
I'm ashamed to say I've looked at his messages. I'm not proud of that at all but i feel like he's hiding something.
This woman sends messages like
"love you DH!!! Xxxxx"
"I'm so happy to be part of your life xxxx"
Etc
He deletes regularly but recently I saw tail end of a convo where he was saying his heart was bleeding and he though her best friend "knew". She continued that her and her "hubby" (cringe) have an open relationship but she's always denied anything to do with him (my DH) as he'd said nobody most ever know.
Am I the worlds biggest fool?
I've seen them make plans to meet, he hasn't mentioned to me. They work together.
Frankly, I'm being driven around the bend.
Our son is due to sit GCSEs and I don't want to rock the boat at the mo but equally, this whole thing is making me ill.
Any advice?