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Messed up situation

36 replies

jl1983 · 15/03/2015 11:16

You might have read my posts about how I was messed about by an alcoholic... Anyway he's been kicked out by his gf but his ex gf from years ago who is married is now going round every day giving him booze and money so she can get sex out of him. I'm finding it hard to cope as he used me last Thursday and he's now not getting his deserts and getting what he wants

OP posts:
JustJanice · 16/03/2015 11:00

I agree with talbot. Faint heart never won fair...um...alcoholic waster.

I'll hold your coat!

jl1983 · 16/03/2015 11:59

I know I told the gf I no longer want to b involved in this as it's messing with my head so has gone off on one telling the other woman what I've said... He said to her I'm ugly and a basket case and he tells me she's gross. I don't believe not that I care

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AnyFucker · 16/03/2015 12:11

yeah but, no but...

< sigh >

is it half term again ?

jl1983 · 16/03/2015 12:21

Nope afraid not just these past few days have messed my head up being dragged into something I really didn't need to

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whattodoowiththeleftoverturkey · 16/03/2015 19:20

Nobody has dragged you into anything. Just keep away, block their numbers, socialise with a different crowd for a while.

Vivacia · 16/03/2015 20:00

I agree OP you are choosing to be involved in all of this.

jl1983 · 16/03/2015 20:29

Well I'm now cutting myself off from it at mo

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Vivacia · 16/03/2015 20:33

What does that involve jl?

Shakey1500 · 16/03/2015 20:41

You're not being dragged in. You chose to be with him last Thurs and you're getting involved now

It all sounds like a soap opera tbh.

jl1983 · 16/03/2015 20:41

Blocking nos etc

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weedinthepool · 16/03/2015 21:31

You all sound a bit unhinged. All 4 of you need to find some self respect from somewhere. This is not how adults conduct normal relationships you know.

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