I'm sick today, first DP couldn't take both kids out with him this morning as it was too hard work, so I had one (baby). I take both kids with me when I go out - he never does (too much like hardwork). He gets back and gives kids lunch, I go down after my painkiller kicks in, and he's just huffing and whiney about everything 'no don't do that' 'oh god, no not there' about the kids. It all seems such a chore to him that it guilts me for being unwell so I feel worse. This is constant when he has to do 'family' things or deal with the kids. I'm so done in by it, I get 2 kids and dog are hard work, we both work full time too, but it's all so constantly apparent its all a chore.
Does anyone else have a DP like this?